brutal honesty   fierce femme queer with the icy heart of a mermaid princess just waiting to thaw out. sex/body positive, polyamorous. infatuated with sass, overpriced shoes, body modifications, & queer activism. drinks like a fish, curses like a sailor, fights like a lady. i live in a tower, i live in the sea. majoring in behavioral health, minoring in badassery. i'm all about back alley riot grrrl feminist killjoy shit. no apologies, no regrets.

imperfecthope:

martin-of-crieffstonia:

can-we-just-no-we-can-t:

buzzfeed:

Dad jokes = the best jokes.

"Don’t be disgusting"

how is a toaster delivered in theory

FAVOURITE

(via parkways)

— 9 hours ago with 193740 notes

redbeaniscream:

this is the greatest thing ever

I am actually weeping at how true this is.

(Source: illkim, via saranoia)

— 9 hours ago with 105211 notes
#so important  #paging kelsea 
"I am constantly torn between wanting to improve myself and wanting to destroy myself."
— 17 hours ago with 74571 notes
A thousand times a day, I am haunted by my own skin. And a thousand times a day, I am reminded that it isn’t going anywhere - that these are my scars, this cellulite & these tattoos & these breasts are all mine. Somehow, this temple is mine. I have disconnected, and I am unsure how to reconnect, how to talk about the physical in current terminology as opposed to detached vocabulary, some objective case study I can look upon cooly. This is my coping mechanism, this is my safety, this is what I know. It is not about skinny, it is not about control. It is about negative spaces, it is about being so small that I turn inside out, so that you can see what taps on my ribcage, driving me absolutely insane, driving me to not want to eat, driving me to drive aimlessly at midnight, driving me to cry silently in algebra class, driving me to be haunted. I am skin and bones, but I am not here. Not right now. But I am trying.
My mouth is howling, but there is silence.

A thousand times a day, I am haunted by my own skin. And a thousand times a day, I am reminded that it isn’t going anywhere - that these are my scars, this cellulite & these tattoos & these breasts are all mine. Somehow, this temple is mine. I have disconnected, and I am unsure how to reconnect, how to talk about the physical in current terminology as opposed to detached vocabulary, some objective case study I can look upon cooly. This is my coping mechanism, this is my safety, this is what I know. It is not about skinny, it is not about control. It is about negative spaces, it is about being so small that I turn inside out, so that you can see what taps on my ribcage, driving me absolutely insane, driving me to not want to eat, driving me to drive aimlessly at midnight, driving me to cry silently in algebra class, driving me to be haunted. I am skin and bones, but I am not here. Not right now. But I am trying.

My mouth is howling, but there is silence.

— 1 day ago
#writing  #tw: disorder eating 
kaylanewell:

i passed this on my bike the other day and it made me feel better and now look here it is again

kaylanewell:

i passed this on my bike the other day and it made me feel better and now look here it is again

(Source: sediti0n, via glittergnat)

— 2 days ago with 274800 notes

crunchrapsupreme:

literally the most important show you’ll ever watch

(via twinkboiwonder)

— 2 days ago with 147645 notes

vaguely nsfw asks oops

1. Are looks important in a relationship?
2. Are relationships ever worth it?
3. Are you a virgin?
4. Are you in a relationship?
5. Are you in love?
6. Are you single this year?
7. Can you commit to one person?
8. Describe your crush
9. Describe your perfect mate
10. Do you believe in love at first sight?
11. Do you ever want to get married?
12. Do you forgive betrayal?
13. Do you get jealous easily?
14. Do you have a crush on anyone?
15. Do you have any piercings?
16. Do you have any tattoos?
17. Do you like kissing in public?
20. Do you shower every day?
21. Do you think someone has feelings for you?
22. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
23. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat?
24. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years?
25. Do you want to be in a relationship this year?
26. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you?
27. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you?
28. Have you ever been cheated on?
29. Have you ever cheated on someone?
30. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If so, what would you change about your body?
31. Have you ever cried over a guy/girl?
32. Have you ever experienced unrequited love?
33. Have you ever had sex with a man?
34. Have you ever had sex with a woman?
35. Have you ever kissed someone older than you?
36. Have you ever liked one of your best friends?
37. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated?
38. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?
39. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?
40. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone?
41. Have you had sex so far this year?
42. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?
43. How long was your longest relationship?
44. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?
45. How many people did you kiss in 2012/2013?
46. How many times did you have sex last year?
47. How old are you?
48. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say?
49. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her?
50. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept?
51. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for?
52. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why?
53. Is there someone mad because you’re dating/talking to the person you are?
54. Is there someone you will never forget?
55. Share a relationship story.
56. State 8 facts about your body
57. Things you want to say to an ex
58. What are five ways to win your heart?
59. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)
60. What is the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners?
61. What is the first thing you notice in someone?
62. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you?
63. What is your definition of “having sex”?
64. What is your definition of cheating?
65. What is your favourite foreplay routine?
66. What is your favourite roleplay?
67. What is your idea of the perfect date?
68. What is your sexual orientation?
69. What turns you off?
70. What turns you on?
71. What was your kinkiest wet dream?
72. What words do you like to hear during sex?
73. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you?
74. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for?
75. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you?
76. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone?
77. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships?
78. What’s your dirtiest secret?
79. When was the last time you felt jealous? Why?
80. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?
81. Who are five people you find attractive?
82. Who is the last person you hugged?
83. Who was your first kiss with?
84. Why did your last relationship fail?
85. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet?
— 2 days ago with 705137 notes

virguin:

If you were my homework I’d do you.

Okay, so I have an ex & their nickname for me was “Homework”, and I think it came from the joke that they used to want to do me all the time, but it became this really sweet thing, where they’d call me call me & say stuff like “is it time for school?” because they lived in New Hampshire & I live in Maine, and I’d go down every weekend, and right before we’d go to sleep, they would whisper stuff like “tell me, tell me, did I get an A” & I’d always giggle.

You know, I broke that ex’s heart. They dropped me off in their huge red truck, and I told them I’d call them next weekend to pick me up, and I just never called them again. They called, and they emailed, and I just never responded. They were so in love with me, but they never knew I had a live in partner, plus two other partners on the side. I was 18, maybe 19, and I was so unstable.

Years later, a friend of mine & I drove down to New Hampshire & I remembered how to get to their house from memory. We showed up on a whim, and I knocked on their door. They offered me a beer, and we made plans for me to come up the weekend after that to spend the night so we could talk, catch up. And wouldn’t you know it, they cancelled on me, told me it wouldn’t work. That must have been… jesus, three, four years ago? Who even knows? I was drinking so much, my bipolar running rampant? Anna and I drove down there when I was manic, foaming at the mouth to make amends.

I don’t know what triggered all these memories from this simple text post, but from time to time I think about New Hampshire, about that specific partner. We lived a simple life when we were together: bonfires & cheap beer. They let me drive their truck, even though I didn’t have my license. We were a little punk rock couple, with their mohawk & my scuffed up combat boots; matching lip rings. We fucked loudly, and they were so proud to introduce me at every party: this is my baby. They’re engaged now - my facebook friend request has been pending for months.

(via heartbreaks)

— 2 days ago with 99549 notes